I can't speak for all women who join Adult FriendFinder, but I have gotten a million responses from guys who sound like completely illiterate idiots.

If you can't spell or put a sentence together in at least a 5th grade fashion, I am plain and flat out not interested. Frankly, it is rare to get a response that is even remotely well-written or vaguely articulate....

I realize that a lot of guys think it's not "manly" to appear or be smart, but if you're looking for a woman that is not just another skinny, cigarette smoking, trailer dwelling, mullet hair-do'd, Shania Twain fan, SUV driving, airhead..then put some thought into your responses! And for crissakes, don't just send along a picture of your thingy! I know most men are obsessed with their own thingys, but here's a news flash: women are not!! Most women I know get a pretty good laugh over the way men think their thingys are so important and "attractive." A man's body is more important....

Which leads to the next reason I don't respond to some guys...

Lose some weight!! I have actually gotten nauseated at the pics of some guys with their flabby waistlines.

Another news flash....

Only desperate women are attracted to big bellied men!